told my therapist that i’ve lost a few friends since i started setting firm personal boundaries and she said,”it’s amazing how many people no longer find you useful when you’re harder to control” !!!!!!!!!!

telling my therapist the internet loves her mind

@bigsiha @JayNelleGerv Whew!!! 🫡 Thank you for amplifying what boundaries can do for us!

@bigsiha I've found the same, but also that I've made NEW friends who also value their personal space and time. It's really kind of a win-win, no lie. Birds of a feather and whatnot, I guess?

@bigsiha Or maybe you are less likable with bad advise from your Therapist?

@bigsiha @AaliyahJay none of you people know what boundaries are i fear. Losing good people who give you honest criticism all because you don't want to hear it.