Darrin @darjohn25
I trade Volatility & other Derivatives. My opinions are my own and definitely aren’t financial advice. Dallas, TX Joined July 2009-
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When you’re trying to double check for any leftover orders from the fed trade and the kids takeover your office 🤦🏽♂️😂 . Needless to say, we got some good movement out of the ETPs into the close. Overall, some of the air came out of the index vol today. Can’t complain. $SPX $VIX
🎯🙌 You found your own way. This made my day. It is extremely satisfying to see a person, especially a younger person, *apply* everything that I've imparted onto them after many hours of deep conversation. On edge: The edge isn't in the tool or the tactic, rather, the edge is…
Disclaimer: I'm late, I know lol. I mentioned something around this idea a while back to several ppl. Idea 💡: Do any of you crypto vol and options traders use either the ATM straddle or a VIX style calculation to estimate your LP token breakevens? Seems like this would be the…
What follows is some information that tends to induce people to make bad decisions. So, disclaimer: Don't make bad decisions. There's some unique positioning in S&P options right now. Dealer SPX vanna exposure (VEX) is at all-time highs.
Absolutely incredible game by Big Red, Spags, Chris Jones on D, Mahomes, Pacheco, Kelce. They’re true champions. They played a helluva game. Cmac and Jennings played their asses off too. Fantastic game!
There’s an interesting, philosophical question to be raised wrt going for it on 4th down as much Dan Campbell does: In a game where there aren’t lots of trials or ‘at bats’, even if a proposition has +edge, do you still make the trade or in the football context, do you still…
I’m wishing my baby boy a Happy Birthday 🎂🎊!! I was pleasantly surprised that over 2/3rds of his class rsvp’ed and showed up to celebrate his special day 🙏🏽. My wife and I work extremely diligently to ensure that both of our boys are kind, ethical and respectful to their…
I appreciate the vulnerability Kris offers in this thread. 💯 For me, I always wanted to be a trader and I thoroughly enjoy what I do for a living. That said, the combination of parenthood, marriage and approaching middle age has been sobering to say the least. I've been forced…
I appreciate the vulnerability Kris offers in this thread. 💯 For me, I always wanted to be a trader and I thoroughly enjoy what I do for a living. That said, the combination of parenthood, marriage and approaching middle age has been sobering to say the least. I've been forced…
Oh man. Hell has frozen over. The Lions appear to be on their way to the NFC championship game. Im in utter disbelief. The GM and the Dan C crushed the draft and have done a magnificent job of creating a culture of intensity and toughness. All those years as a kid, I would go…
Only a piss poor performance like this from Dak and the rest of the boys can bring me out of X retirement 🤬🤬🤬🤬!! #CowboysNation Major respect to young Jordan Love! He's composed, agile and accurate. He looks like the Vet with the big contract today.
Happy New Year 🎊, Fam! I’m officially 40 years old 🙏🏽. I’m so grateful for the inseparable bond I have with my boys🥹❤️. As you can see, we’re still getting settled and living on a construction site bc moving sucks LOL. We had brunch (Thanks Mrs J !) and now we’re back to…
DM's flooded with people asking me about the book I didn't publish after the @UnabatedSports podcast. I'm going to share a shortened chapter on market efficiency to get your mind thinking in the right direction. The rest of it stays in the vault. Part 1 📖
Low vol can remain low for a very long time. If you have a model that produces a decent forecast over your trade horizon, then you *should* be selling straddles on most days, currently. However, no pain, no gain. Even though the VRP is strong across the front of end of the term…
The past several months have been difficult, but I’m so grateful for my family and friends. It can be challenging during frustrating times to deliberately reflect on all the blessings that we have, but we must do it anyways. 💯 Happy Thanksgiving 🦃 X-Fin Peeps! I’m lurking…
Anecdotally, I am fairly confident that Powell's mandate of raising rates and stalling the economy is having a material impact on the real economy. Which, in turn, will likely lead to an outperformance of short vol strategies expressed using options imho. The past two months…
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Don't be a jack of all trades, master of none. Specialize. Understand your risk appetite, funnel your focus in one or two asset classes, determine your trading hours, stick with one or two set-ups, be patient... That's the money.
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Today is the opposite of a “sticky $VIX” and is a VIX that is gravitationally challenged. The higher the VIX gets above its recent range, the more incremental fear it takes to hold it there, which is why lower lows in stocks have not (yet) translated into a new intraday VIX high
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The most powerful thing you will here today, this week, arguably forever.
Powerful message from Scottie Scheffler
Now tell ‘em what happens on the bad weeks Cole.
An account with $500,000 cash can generate $4,000 per week when selling options at .8%. That’s a $192,000 salary before tax.
Zerohedge making money from writing puts and there’s still people fighting me on the narrative that the short vol trade is crowded……. What a time to be alive 😂😂😂
Dear Turbotax: figuring out how someone can make a profit after writing a put isn't more complicated than solving the Rieman hypothesis.
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Thank you all for the kind words. Some find these kind of posts to be "look at me" and I can see that. However, I have found my cyber-friend connections on here for over ten years to be worthy of sharing a deeper connection in real life "stuff". Thanks again! 🥰😎
saw some posts about ppl getting rekt in short vol ETPs today. look, if today seriously hurt you, then you’re WAY too far out on the idiot side of the pussy <-> idiot sizing spectrum. study how far things have moved in the past.
S&P realized vol , C-C & H-L compared to $VIX . Whether the market is overreacting on headline risk, or sentiment, the reality is, realized vol is actually moving higher outside of the price action we witnessed over the last four months.
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