Heather Havrilesky @hhavrilesky
Author of Foreverland (Ecco 2022) + 3 other books + Ask Polly + Ask Molly on Substack. Illustration by Michael Sowa. Mastodon: @[email protected] askpolly.substack.com Chapel Hill, NC Joined June 2009-
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It's a good day to look at the cover for my first novel, WOMEN'S HOTEL, out 10/15/24...available for pre-order now...the cover is full of tiny little windows with interesting objects in them...
In @hhavrilesky's Ask Polly columns, I feel like I've had very productive therapy sessions while reading about someone else's life and problems
My older daughter’s childhood friend died at the age of 14 from a single pill she purchased from someone she met online. Fentanyl poisoning deaths are preventable. Naloxone belongs in every first aid kit. ask-polly.com/p/fentanyl-poi…
I’ve always been a big believer that everyone should know CPR (if only because taking a first aid & CPR course really helps you not freeze in an emergency) and now I believe really strongly that everyone should carry naloxone & know how to use it (easy!)
I’ve always been a big believer that everyone should know CPR (if only because taking a first aid & CPR course really helps you not freeze in an emergency) and now I believe really strongly that everyone should carry naloxone & know how to use it (easy!)
Helpful information on fentanyl poisoning. Thousands a year are dying from one bad pill. Everyone should have naloxone in their first aid kits at this point. Please read and share. cedars-sinai.org/newsroom/the-f…
"The atrocities committed by Hamas on Oct. 7 were unconscionable and depraved, and the taking and holding of hostages is abhorrent. But the right to self-defense does not and cannot require unleashing this humanitarian nightmare on millions of civilians." nytimes.com/2023/12/11/opi…
Andre Braugher was quite simply one of the greatest actors in the history of the medium. He rarely got his due but we all knew it. A force of nature. What a loss.
a beautiful gutwrenching essay from @hhavrilesky on Matthew Perry, the corrosiveness of shame and why how we remember his struggles — and his generous honesty about his failings — matters deeply to our own lives nytimes.com/2023/11/06/opi…
"Flailing confusedly, craving more love, more safety, less loneliness isn’t just human; it’s the signature move of every human alive." Love this, by @hhavrilesky nytimes.com/2023/11/06/opi…
Of all my reading for therapeutic reasons nothing comes close to @hhavrilesky's blog AskPolly. Can't believe an advice column directed mostly at women would help a dude bro man's man like myself. The self introspection I gained was painful at first but ultimately fulfilling.…
Im taking a memoir writing workshop this week at a place that makes you feel like maybe the universe really is conspiring in your favor & then this @hhavrilesky newsletter shows up & it's so good. I want all the women who write abt their lives to read it: askmolly.substack.com/p/undead
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How to I read this for free, when i saved it, it was free i think now its paid. Can someone help? @hhavrilesky #askpolly #writerscommunity #writers open.substack.com/pub/askpolly/p…
I could only understand parts of this and it's possibly my favorite review ever.
I could only understand parts of this and it's possibly my favorite review ever.
I've been in Durham, NC for two years now. Here's what I wrote right after moving. 2021 was a hard year. askmolly.substack.com/p/fanfare
You were born affectionate and grateful. Show yourself. ask-polly.com/p/i-need-more-…
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@hhavrilesky reflecting on turning 28 today and the words “this magic belongs to me” keep coming to the forefront - what a gift your writing is for those of us using this solitude to self reflect / to learn self care. i am so so grateful for your wisdom ✨
I’ve always been a big believer that everyone should know CPR (if only because taking a first aid & CPR course really helps you not freeze in an emergency) and now I believe really strongly that everyone should carry naloxone & know how to use it (easy!)
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What a beautiful piece @hhavrilesky about M. Perry. “Too often we treat people’s mistakes as moral failures and shape their deaths into cautionary tales rather than recognize our own intense need for love and connection and admit how encumbered by shame many of us are.”
@hhavrilesky @nytimes Really good piece! Thanks for writing it - It helped me today ;)
@hhavrilesky @nytimes Like you, I've read Perry's book (painful, harrowing, but worth reading, imho), but yours is the first column I've seen that integrates what we can learn from that book as we process our grief (or any other reaction) at his abrupt loss. Thanks.
"Savor your magic instead. Love your giant heart. Forgive yourself, and float above the ground. Forgive yourself, and spread that magic around like you were born to do." ~@hhavrilesky Ending the day with these words 🥹
@hhavrilesky #AskPolly really felt this one to my core today and want to thank you. This is the work I am doing *literally right now* and your writing makes the message painstakingly clear and yet so gently delivered. ‘Ef’s me up in the best ways
@MunjalVaibhav @hhavrilesky I'm an avid follower of Heather and now I must become an avid follower of Vaibhav. ❤️
@hhavrilesky Hi Heather, thank you so much. We have now put in English captions on the video. Sometimes while recording, I tend to speak in Hindi but I hope now you'll be able to enjoy the video even better. :)
@hhavrilesky Thank you, Heather. Your comment made my day. It really means a lot to me as well! ♥️
@hhavrilesky One of my favorite things you ever wrote. Hope you and your family are doing great.
Just watched the Richie episode of @TheBearFX last night and it was amazing and touching, but I guess (really) old habits die (really) hard, because where the hell is @hhavrilesky when I need her?
@hhavrilesky I knew him too, years ago - really one of the better humans.
Today's quote by @hhavrilesky (caps hers): "PERFECTIONISTS IGNORE THEIR BODIES, EMOTIONS, AND SENSATIONS. SECRETLY AMBITIOUS SLACKERS IGNORE THEIR TRUEST DESIRES AND PASSIONS."
@jpschmader I actually think I mayyyy have gotten this line from @hhavrilesky lol
@meganmargulies @hhavrilesky It’s so so good.
And then, seemingly out of nowhere, you appear to have the makings of a book.