Lethabo @Lech_Jr_

pleasing you pleases me, and it better be vice versa.

el @americanoangell

3 days ago

getting horny from making someone else horny is so much fun

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Dating has become so tedious, and a lot of people are genuinely so ego-driven. They want fans and attention, not companionship. 😩

🌻 Peaches 🌻 @Iam_Wynona

22 hours ago

She didn't text me this morning cause she wanted me to text first. Shukuthi i must try wake up at 4am so she can get a morning text instead of her having to send it cause she is always up first. Ay guys. Masiyeke

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If you want to know whether someone is genuinely kind and fair, observe how they behave with someone who has no ability to punish unfairness. Some people genuinely despise exploiting others, their heart bleeds out for misery of others. Some people turn petty every chance they get.

Easy, the short answer TikTok. The moment women viewed relationships as a transaction and made it about money instead of love. When you started taking relationship advice from prostitutes and Pinocchio girls that’s when y’all completely lost the plot. When relationships became more about sex in exchange for money than building a partnership women lost. I saw exactly when women became a liability.

Temidayo💝 @rae_chloe133

2 days ago

An entire generation of men now sees women as a liability rather than a life partner. How did we get to a point where love feels like a burden? 🤦🏾‍♀️

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Believe me, there is nothing quite like talking to someone consistently over the phone, especially having night calls with them for a week or two. You will find yourself giggling for no reason, looking forward to their calls, and smiling whenever you see their name pop up on your screen. When you go hours without talking to them, something feels missing. Before you know it, you have fallen deeply in love with them without even realising when it happened. There is something about phone calls that texting can never fully replicate, no matter how lively or interesting the conversations are. Hearing someone's voice, the laughter, the pauses, the teasing, the random conversations that stretch into the night, and the feeling of having someone there with you, even from a distance, create a different kind of connection. Sometimes, you don't even realise how attached you have become until you miss a call, wait for a message that doesn't come, or find yourself wanting to tell them every little thing that happens during your day. Texting can get you interested in someone, but consistent phone calls can make you emotionally attached before you even realise it. ❤️

🌷mhiz'Oyindamola🌹 @mhizOyindam1

2 days ago

WHAT DO YOU THINK IS THE FASTEST WAY TO GET SOMEONE TO FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU?

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Has anyone ever successfully terminated a contract with MTN ?

I know there’s nigga that got paid yesterday but cant even buy themselves a KFC meal because they overburdened themselves by choosing to be providers. Niggas are so determined to be the solution to women’s poverty that they end up engineering their own.

According to game theory: Majority of people choose an inferior but safer outcome because getting to better outcome requires trusting somebody and living under the fear of betrayal. If you are rational enough to understand cooperation can produce better results, you must reduce the cost of cooperation and make it as easy as possible to trust you.

There are three central skills you need to succeed: 1. Adaptability, which is basically law. 2. Strategy to anticipate. It directly builds on adaptability. 3. Social Skills. It doesn't even need to be charisma. Just learn to convey ideas. Then add basic persuasion and some wit, and you're good to go. P.S. Your morning routine is absolutely insignificant to your success. Waking up at 4am doesn't make you more successful than a disciplined bum who wakes up at 12pm.

As a guy, your highest chance of experiencing anything close to true love is with a girl that likes you first. That’s why you must continually work on yourself to become someone worthy of being sought after.

The true character of a person is revealed when they no longer need anything from you. When a person a person is dependent on you, they are forced to be respectful, attentive, generous or loyal. Most people are not morally good, they are forced to be good. Constraint can mimic virtue surprisingly well.

research suggests that women use exclusion, comparison and dethroning as competitive strategies while men are socialised to accept hierarchical ranking, in sports, work and friendship groups. side boyfriends accept hierarchy and side girlfriends contest it. In this essay I will

Majola 🐍🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦 @Zimasabuhle

5 days ago

One thing about side boyfriends, they know their place and they also know they are side boyfriends. They also respect the main boyfriend and know the is such a thing. You never hear them saying we are all boyfriends because they know where they stand. I can respect that 🫡🫡 😭

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We like them 😂😂😂😂they are just too available. I don't know how to explain.. unaona vile you lose interest na dame akishaa kupea?

MaX Holding @XCouncillor

4 days ago

Women really don't like nice guys man 😭😭.

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Let go of the “Happily married “ fallacy bro. Yall are going to die young trying to turn these huns into wives. Come to the dark side and get some hoes with me and enjoy your life.

VusiMbuzi @VusiMbuzi

2 weeks ago

kill that lover boy in you bro, these huns won’t appreciate him anyway. You are only setting yourself up for a heartbreak.

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1. The easiest thing to know in this life is when someone is genuinely interested in you. The second easiest thing is when someone isn’t. 2. All of a sudden, they become too busy for you. You start wondering, “Isn’t it the same job they were doing in the beginning of the talking stage or relationship?” Well, they no longer like you. 3. If you don’t call or text them first, they won’t reach out. It starts to feel like they are responding to you rather than conversing with you. If you don’t call or text your babe or talking stage for the next 48 hours and they don’t reach out, you already have your answer. 4. They begin to take offense at the most inconsequential things and jokes. This is because everything you do now irritates them, and most people cannot hide their irritation to save their lives. 5. Texts start getting shorter. Calls become shorter, with excuses like being tired. This is someone who used to stay on the phone with you for four hours or text you “wyd?” in the middle of the night. Let me break it to you: while the calls and texts with you are getting shorter, those with someone else are getting longer. The new person. 6. They start making flimsy excuses whenever you want to see them. They are now too occupied to spend quality time with you. So much for someone who used to ask, “Hey, are you at home?” just to come and see you when they still liked you. 7. If you pay close attention, they start making statements or dropping hints that you should date anyone who wants to take you seriously. They may not spell it out, but they subtly begin to tell you to keep your options open. 8. Unnecessary fights and arguments become the order of the day. Every little conversation turns into a fight, leading to days of not speaking to each other until you, the person who is still the only one invested in the relationship, eventually apologise for peace to reign. A terrible thing to do, by the way. 9. Your conversations with them begin to lack substance. After “How are you doing?”, “How was your day?” and “Have you eaten?”, there is nothing else to talk about. They are intentionally becoming boring to frustrate you. 10. They go out, take new pictures, and you begin to see those pictures on social media like the civilian you have now become. This is someone who used to spam you with new pictures and even ask you to select the ones they would post. 11. They become inconsiderate and unnecessarily needy. Inconsideration is one of the easiest ways to know that someone no longer cares about you. In fact, it can be a sign of resentment. 12. They begin to personalise everything. This is someone who used to say things like, “So, what are WE going to do now?”, “WE will get through this” and “WE should go out again soon.” Now, everything becomes “I”. This is because they no longer see you as part of their future. 13. A third party enters the picture. There is now a new guy or girl they talk to all the time, someone you are obviously uncomfortable with. When you express your displeasure, they tell you how insecure you are and insist that it is not that deep. It is that deep. That person is your replacement. 14. You begin to hear absurd statements like, “You know we don’t have to talk every day, right?” or “I want space.” 15. You find yourself begging for the bare minimum: love, care, sex, attention, reciprocity, etc. This is often a result of their lack of enthusiasm towards you. The signs are always there. Crystal clear. Human beings are not that deep. When someone likes you, you will know. When they no longer like you, you will also know. Hope just blurs the line. Leave with your dignity when you notice most of the aforementioned signs.

Abby baby 🦋 @_babygirlabby

4 days ago

How do you even know when your partner or talking stage is no longer interested in you?

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An ideal and healthy household is where the wife earns R15k–R25k, while the husband earns R50k–R75k or more. Living in a fenced three-bedroom house with a garage, raising two kids who speak English, and owning two cars a BMW and Toyota Bakkie. Both working Monday to Friday, with no late shifts, overtime, or night shifts. Always home by 5 pm, making time for the kids’ school activities and spending weekends together as a family. Now that’s what you call a clean, peaceful life without unnecessary stress. ❤️👊🏽

Trust should be specific, and never sentimental. "I trust him" is purely vague. The right question is "I trust him to do what, under which conditions?" A person can be trustworthy under certain conditions, yet betray you when they change. To find someone who you can trust blindly in this world, is extremely rare.

Collapsed doggy. Cheeks pushed up and apart. Irregular intervals between strokes. Aggressive dirty talk. Tears.

If you've been stuck in hardcore PMO (porn, masturbation, orgasm) for years – like multiple times a day, edging, extreme genres, the whole cycle – your brain's chemistry gets wrecked in ways most people don't realize. Let me break it down. What happens biologically: Every time you orgasm, your brain releases prolactin. That's the hormone that makes you feel "done" and relaxed. Normally, it spikes and then drops. But when you're doing chronic, compulsive, high-intensity masturbation for years? Your prolactin baseline can stay elevated. Not tumor-level high, but above normal. And that's where the real damage starts. Overthinking & rumination – High prolactin lowers dopamine. Less dopamine = your brain gets stuck in loops. You replay conversations, obsess over tiny things, can't let go. It's not just "anxiety," it's your brain literally losing the ability to switch off. Stress & anxiety – Prolactin directly raises cortisol. You're walking around in a low-grade fight-or-flight state 24/7. That's why you feel wired but tired. Hair fall – Yes, prolactin can push hair follicles into the shedding phase. Combine that with high cortisol and low nutrients from poor lifestyle, and you get thinning hair even in your 20s. Dull, lifeless eyes – High prolactin affects tear production and eye brightness. Plus low dopamine = no "spark." You look dead behind your eyes. Puffy face / moon face – Prolactin causes mild water retention. Add cortisol fat redistribution and poor sleep, and you get that bloated, puffy look even if you're lean. This is not "in your head." These are real endocrine changes from years of hardcore PMO. The guys who quit and suddenly look better, clearer eyes, sharper face, less anxiety? They didn't just "gain confidence." Their prolactin dropped and dopamine recovered.

Heidemann🇱🇻 (רָאוּי לְשֶׁבַח) @M_Heidemann

5 days ago

Porn/gooning is one of those habits that seem appealing when your libido/sexual energy has built up and you're more sensitized to sexual stimuli and have higher dopamine sensitivity But once you nut you're overcome with a strong sense of regret due to realizing you wasted your

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