The idea that feminism exists because men “allowed” it is one of the most ridiculous and misogynistic ways some men inflate their importance. Imagine taking pride in granting yourself credit for freedoms you neither fought for nor sacrificed to secure. You people are DUMB!
I say this every time.
I need women to realise you aren’t special in the patriarchy.
The fact that you haven’t been assaulted yet, doesn’t mean other women did something wrong.
You are just LUCKY
Call out horrible service in a restaurant “oh you want to spoil their business”
Call out the government “oh you’re part of the opposition party”
Call out bad behavior “oh you’re jealous”
Before I am anything, I am first a woman. When men harass me, they don’t do it because I’m Christian or Igbo. When they rape me, they do it because I am a woman. When they catcall me, it’s because I am a woman. So I place my feminism above any religion, tribe, or other identity.
The main problem with basically every issue in Ghana is that the government has convinced you that working for you is some sort of favour. It’s not.
The day the majority of Ghanaians realize that is the day we’ll have any real hope of turning the fortunes of this country around.
The same Ghanaians who throw rubbish into gutters here will travel abroad and follow the rules not because their character suddenly changed. They follow the rules because the system there will punish them if they don’t. You can’t beg people to “behave properly” and call that governance. No serious country runs on begging.
The more we speak up, the more some of you bend over backwards for male validation. Victim blaming rooted in internalised misogyny is exactly why we keep struggling to address serious issues in this country.
I’m so sick in my tummy.
And while we are on the topic of blaming victims, many of you women need to unlearn and deconstruct the internalized misogyny that we were all brought up with, that still lives in you. The inherent need to immediately point your fingers on your fellow gender and blame them..
I don’t like unnecessarily mean and condescending people because you really don’t have to be that way. You don’t even have to be overly nice, just be chill.
I don’t get men sometimes, why do they get mad when women decides not to have children or get married, if one woman decides not to, you will see like 5 others that wants to .
I cut my tubes at 24. I know this topic makes people uncomfortable and honestly that’s exactly why I’m talking about it. This was my choice, and in this video I’m walking you through every part of it. The stuff nobody posts about. Go give it a watch🩷
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