Whatās the obsession of wanting to be treated like a child in a relationship?
Whatās the obsession of wanting to be treated like a child in a relationship?
@hale1914 Iām confused why we have to pretend like emotions stop once we hit a certain age? if itās weird I would like to be held by my SO while Iām in a bad mood then so be it lol
@darlingsydni I should have explained better. What I was saying is that itās nothing wrong with being loved or held. Itās the whiny attitude and temper tantrums that is weird to me. As an adult tell me you want to be held
@hale1914 @darlingsydni She understood what you were saying lol she's trying to avoid being consistently cuz the reality is they always wana have their cake and eat it too
@hale1914 @darlingsydni Sheās not displaying any of what youāre describing. She didnāt say a word and dude seems fine with giving her grace. So what youāre saying to illustrate your point isnāt making sense. I just get the vibe that you lack empathy in relationships. No shade.
@hale1914 @darlingsydni No. You explained it fine, initially. Whatās the obsession with wanting to be treated like a child. Having your partner bounce you up & down like a 1yr old needed to be put to sleepā¦š„“
@hale1914 You were right on and explained it well, you know some folks rode the short bus!!!
@hale1914 @darlingsydni Itās screaming Daddy issues 101 bro
@hale1914 @darlingsydni A lot of children do this as well. Crying out / whining for attention especially if they were denied it at a young age. Defense mechanism in case of rejection. As women we donāt always feel comfortable initiating or asking for comforting for the same reason.
@hale1914 @darlingsydni Itās very corny. Thatās all she wants when she gets an attitude? Grow up. You donāt need to be held like baby for that
@hale1914 @darlingsydni These be the same ones who aren't emotionally mature and will talk to a man disrespectfully...... plenty people haven't grown up yet
@hale1914 @darlingsydni They want fathers. Then complain about men wanting mothers. Confused worldā¦ā¦.
@hale1914 @darlingsydni Lol because of womenās emotional nature,they are like children,they have an emotional language of their own that you need to understand as a man,donāt be too logical,youāll scare them off Find a balance between being logical and being emotionally accommodating.