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Riley Santer Author of FINDING FRIENDSHIP Available NOW ⬇️⬇️⬇️ https://t.co/0cxaIXtAiy amazon.com/dp/B0C4G4FG1G Joined August 2022

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9 months ago

I don't care how nice someone is to you, if they can't be honest with you then they'll never be a close friend.

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9 months ago

The best self-improvement program is to take note of what you do and don't respect of other ppl & then hold yourself accountable to those standards.

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11 months ago

Any day you go out to meet new ppl, whether you make connections or not, is a win-- because you're telling yourself "I care enough about you to try."

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11 months ago

Friends are not space fillers so you have someone to do the things only you want to do. Friends are ppl to have shared enjoyable experiences with.

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12 months ago

If the majority of communication is nonverbal, what does that say of the value of silence, listening and observing in a relationship?

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a year ago

Strength is an essential component for healthy friendships/relationships. Connections involve adding another person in your life-- which requires us to be able to manage the overwhelm of another person's needs.

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a year ago

Don't get so caught up in trying to make a connection with someone that you forget to observe and notice ppl. Remember, many ppl's top desire is to be seen. Be calm, notice, take ppl in.

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a year ago

If someone ghosted you in a long term friendship/relationship without telling you what's wrong, you didn't fail. Try to move on. You deserve people who respect you enough to speak up.

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a year ago

If you have a history of missing deep red flags, I highly recommend journaling about the people you meet regularly. You need a space to track your natural reactions to people and getting in the habit of acknowledging them.

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a year ago

Your mood and energy is like a smell others can pick up on. It's not selfish to take care of your mental well-being-- others will be thankful for it.

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a year ago

Your self-esteem is in a good state when you don't take the rejection of strangers personally.

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a year ago

A big part of fighting solitude is expanding your understanding and experience of other ppl. We often have a specific idea of what we want & only look for that, which blinds us to other possibilities. Make time to expose yourself to new ppl as often as you're able to.

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a year ago

You can't listen to what people are saying if your mind is distracted or you're talking too much and you can't feel people's energy if you're anxious. Calm is the listening of the body and spirit.

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a year ago

People who struggle with social situations should reflect on their self-talk during an event when they get home. You'd be surprised how much needs to be attended to and how it's affecting your energy.

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a year ago

Confidence requires self-knowledge, acceptance and connection with who you are plus the faith you can be successful without compromising who you are. Anything less leads to insecurity.

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a year ago

It's important to remember that we all have different ways of connecting. Some people like chit-chat, some people need deep subjects asap. Some take others in slow, others like to bond right away. Learning to socialize is learning your personal dynamics first.

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a year ago

Attraction is a strong and unrelenting force. Know what kind of character traits you need in a romantic partner-- otherwise you risk losing many years to, at best, distraction... but at worse, abuse.

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a year ago

When you know exactly what you want, why you want it above anything else, believe it's out there, and take some steps to find it-- the universe has a way of meeting you halfway & presenting exactly what you're looking for in front of you.

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a year ago

Bad self-talk will leave you exhausted and depressed out of nowhere because the judgemental voice is so ingrained, you have given a bully an open invite to your brain.

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a year ago

You cannot have deep relationships without sharing deeper, vulnerable feelings. You cannot share deeper feelings if you are not even connecting with your own feelings and experiences.