David Fawale @DFawale

Before you marry someone, pay attention to how they handle: God. Prayer. Money. Happiness. Pressure. Anger. Correction. Conflict. Family. Responsibility. Apologies. Your boundaries. The person you are dating is showing you something. Don't be too in love to observe it.

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Sex is not something you rehearse before marriage. Sex is meant to be learnt in marriage not before marriage. You're expected to enter marriage without knowing how it is done, naive and ignorant about sex. Either male or female, entering marriage as an expert says one thing about you—promiscous.

@ScottRoberts The doctrine of eternal salvation.

As a young man between the ages of 27 and 35 who wants to settle down, please don’t have this “Odogwu mentality”. Find someone who is willing to do life with you just as much as you are willing to do life with them. Life is easier when you have a good partner by your side.

Christians may disagree on non-essential secondary matters, but salvation by grace alone through faith alone in Christ alone remains non-negotiable.

Go to church these days and look around. In many congregations, women make up the overwhelming majority. That should bother us as men. We are quick to say we are leaders, heads of families and providers. But how do you lead spiritually when you barely have a spiritual life?

@TGNLEAD I am blessed.

You can’t have experience without TRYING. You may fail but then you have learnt!

God doesn’t speak ALL THE TIME! He is not a talkative either! Once He speaks, you must hear it more than twice, you must hear it for your entire life time!!

One of the reasons marriages don’t work today is because people leave too fast. The moment something feels uncomfortable, the moment it doesn’t fit anymore, the option to walk away is already on the table. And my wife and I, we made one thing very clear from day one. Going separate ways isn’t even in our vocabulary. It’s not an option. So we don’t even negotiate with it, we don’t threaten with it, we don’t use it when things get hard, because whatever life throws at us, we deal with it together. I honestly think that we have a lot to learn from our grandparents. They didn’t leave because it got boring. They didn’t leave because someone changed.They understood that marriage is something you build, not something you constantly evaluate. That only works if you marry someone you can actually do life with. Someone you respect. Someone you can grow with. Someone who’s willing to stay when things aren’t pretty. And I truly hope people stop romanticizing the idea of marriage and start taking the responsibility of it seriously. Because if leaving is always an option, you’ll never fully commit to staying.

There's religion in Christianity but Christianity in itself is not a religion.

Glory @Gloryneche1

2 months ago

Christianity is not a religion, it's union and the outworking of divinity in humanity, there is a arm in it called religion and it's work is to feed the poor, widow, visit. It becomes an error when you make Christianity all about religion, you kill and suppress the Life in you

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@Gloryneche1 To him that is baptized in water, to the Lord he is baptized in water, to him that isn't baptized in water, to the Lord he isn't baptized in water, being baptized in water or not being baptized in water availeth anything, but identification in the Spirit.

@utdnarmi This is a perfect hattrick.

I have another perspective . She doesn’t want to be a fornicator . And she is keeping her body till marriage . And yes , there are many women who love the Lord more than a relationship. My prayer is that we have more Christian men who gain mastery over themselves so they are the ones leading where sexual purity is concerned .

Duru Bond @Bond_not_james

2 months ago

NOBODY should rationalize this nonsense. If a woman doesn’t want to get intimate with you, it’s 2 major things; - She doesn’t find you attractive. - You haven’t made her feel comfortable enough to. There’s nothing you can do about the first one. Just walk away. Don’t try to

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SO EVERYONE HAS A JOB-EXCEPT THE PASTOR? A teacher has a job. A doctor has a job. A cleaner has a job. A butcher has a job. Even a streamer has a job. But somehow, when it comes to a pastor, you say, “He needs to go and get a real job.” What exactly do you think pastoring is? Do you understand what it means to labour over people? The hours spent studying so you can teach accurately. The hours in prayer. The counselling sessions that stretch deep into the night. The emergency calls. The hospital visits. The marriages and families requiring attention. The members whose problems become burdens you carry. The days when your own family barely sees you because someone else's family needs you. And after all that, someone says, “Go and find a job.” Scripture doesn't speak that way. Paul calls those who preach and teach labourers and says, “The labourer is worthy of his wages” (1 Tim. 5:17–18). He also says, “the Lord commanded that those who preach the gospel should live from the gospel” (1 Cor. 9:14). Certainly, some pastors are lazy. Some are exploitative. Deal with them as such. But don't insult the genuine labour of thousands of faithful ministers because of the abuses of some. Pastoring is not the absence of a job. Pastoring is work. And anyone who has done it faithfully knows just how demanding that work can be.

"Commitment is the bedrock of any successful endeavor. Without it, vision remains a mere dream." - Dr. David Oyedepo

“Until waste is curbed, your future is not secure." — Dr. David Oyedepo No matter how much rain falls, a leaking basket will never be full. Your income cannot lift you if you remain a waster. This week, plug the leaks.👇

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