Dating App Doctor, PhD @DoctorDatingAdv

@borishniko68974 you think its all looks?

signs she views you as a sexy chad 1. sex on the 1st or 2nd date (at the latest) 2. lets you do anything sexual you want and wants to please you (blowjobs, anal, maybe even filming) 3. money and "effort" never come up in conversation. your value to her is mostly sexual signs she put you in the unsexy boyfriend provider box 1. gives friction about meeting at a super casual venue (drinks, park, coffee) and prefers to meet for dinner 2. mentions how she likes effort, consistentcy, provider type men blah blah 3. asks you lots of boring interview questions on the date (whats your job? what part of tow n do you live in? where did you go to school?) and yes, your behavior and game plays a big role in where she slots you

@MarquaadI @gaurav99071SIFF okay i'm fine then mine is over 200 not 20

Should you use AI pics for your dating app profile? I think the window where AI pics gave guys a big edge has already closed. It was short-lived (roughly 2024–2025). Too many guys abused it, so women are now highly skeptical of anything that looks even slightly artificial—especially if your texting doesn’t match the “AI chad” energy in the photos. AI dating pics have basically become a meme. If you’re still heavily relying on them, you’re hoping she’s attracted enough to both the pics and your texting that she’s willing to think “these are probably AI, but maybe he looks close enough in person.” Going into 2027, your profile needs to look real enough that the default assumption is “he’s probably not using AI.” AI can still help augment an already solid, clearly real profile—maybe 1–2 pics if they’re done well—but it shouldn’t be the foundation. The tech will eventually get good enough that it’s indistinguishable from real photos, and at that point most guys will use it because it’s lower effort than actually looking good. But even then, the same rule applies: You could have the most insane dating app presentation in the world, but if your in-person vibe is meek and unsexy, you won’t close and she’ll feel cheated. At the end of the day, the highest-ROI move is still becoming attractive enough (look + style + body language + vibe) that normal, candid photos of you work. Getting results with fully natural pics also builds the best confidence and keeps your profile congruent with who you actually are in person

The advice that non-Chads have to front-load commitment, dates etc and gifts to compete with casual options is the version a lot of women say out loud and still don’t follow when they’re actually interested. Leading with “I’m different because I’ll commit early” usually signals that the attraction wasn’t strong enough on its own. The men who get consistent results rarely need to advertise the boyfriend package in the first few meetings. The ones who do often stay in the slower, more negotiated track. The comment about the woman who likes you wanting to spend time without elaborate tests is closer to how it plays out when the interest is real. Most of the time the difference shows up in how freely she keeps seeing you and how little friction there is around the physical side. Men better still watch that early behavior instead of trying to buy a different category with extra effort. If she needs the full courtship and gifts just to stay interested, treating it as the path to something solid usually means accepting a dynamic where your value is tied to what you’re providing. The men who improve their options and presence first rarely have to make that trade as early or as often. The resentment comes from knowing the rules shift depending on how much she already wants you. Learn Game. To winning, chad.

formalcatattire @formalcatattire

a day ago

The woman who loves you will instantly like you and want to spend time with you. Any elaborate courting or tests, outside of one through trusted family/elders is largely a waste of time for both of you. Women give advice they wish were true. It’s not homework to get gold stars

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@nexta_tv if you are mentally at a point where chose to hit yourself in the face with a hammer then you are likely incapable of having a normal interaction with a woman

a lot of dudes just straight up put themselves in the later category even if the woman would have been down for the 1st too many dudes default to boyfriend/provider behavior as a dating strategy from the get go because they dont feel they are good enough always ASSUME she sees you as a lover until proven otherwise. If she, for whatever reason, puts you in the bf box, then assess wether you want to go through with that and accept it will take more effort to get this girl and that she has def let other dudes hit on the 1st link before

@CaudilloNuclear 3 hrs cuddling? Friendzoned she gonna spend 3 hrs banging another dude the next day

@WestsideLAGuy women fought for equality and when they finally got it they chose to be prostitutes

i had a friend who was 3 inches taller than me who always complained about women giving him shit for his height ive been with far more women than he has but rarely recieved comments about it and pretty much every comment i have recieved are with girls i was banging was always an interesting confirmation to me how your internal beliefs are directly read by women youre with

@TheEdPill brilliant take honestly

I agree that most guys can get into top 20% in any city (given that 80% of men will never really "get it" or put in the effort) But it takes a good eye for the right pics/vibe and the guy should at least be lean. its def harder now to stand out with a lot of dudes just using AI pics (which I understand but they can still have too much an uncanny look IMO so its a risk) beyond that, Raya is the best app ive ever tried as the ratio is a lot better and there are a TON of super hot women on the app, like legit dimes. But i dont think your average guy is getting in quickly

@lizisamused men focus on the wrong things all the time the guy she left him for probably fucks her better and has a bigger dong probably more fun and cool than chud ex husband (who is clearly a chud because he thinks his salary matters for attraction)

bro i have literally hours of footage with a lot of different women like high def footage with excellent lighting and composition i guess they just trust me? a girl once was totally okay with me filming her swallow on THE FIRST DATE imagine being the guy shes making wait for sex now

@zapatas_mom this is the most woman post of all time

@realdebby10 if a girl cheats shes already broken up with you mentally so you arent really "breaking up" with her at that point

Interesting, cool to hear your experience. Similar to mine. The app definitely makes a huge difference, Hinge and Duet girls rarely fuck on the first date but Tinder and Bumble girls often do Partly why I like Tinder and Bumble more - I easily get 5x more lays from those 2 than all the others. But Tinder especially is chaos so you have to be a lot more sharp and aggressive But Hinge does have some of the best quality girls. I like to play all different games 😁