I’m a stepdad and I don’t care about that stuff. I’m raising the kids out of love and expect nothing back except the fact that I raised them well and they are successful and independent. I don’t care if they call me my name or dad. I’ve been their stepdad since they were3 years old. I’m the only dad they really know. If my daughter (step) wants to walk down with a Pigeon at her wedding, that’s her choice. She’s a big girl. I don’t want appreciation or anything. I just want my kids to be good people, and that’s my goal.
@DrKristalNoggin @MomsPostingLs I love you and respect you and don't know you
@DrKristalNoggin @MomsPostingLs Part of being a good people is making proper decisions…
@DrKristalNoggin @MomsPostingLs Some people just can't comprehend loving some past their mistakes. It sounds like you're someone who understands we don't always make the best choices and yet still honor the potential to understand and correct those decisions in the future.
@DrKristalNoggin @MomsPostingLs Good she has a positive relationship with him.
@DrKristalNoggin @MomsPostingLs That means that if that is the case, you haven't truly taught your step children about the meaning of family.
@DrKristalNoggin @MomsPostingLs If she chose her absent father over the man who raised her, paid for her education, car & the very wedding she is disrespecting him at then she is not a good person & by your metrics that would be a failure. He has the right to feel upset at the slight by the daughter he loves.
@DrKristalNoggin @MomsPostingLs Here's the thing, if your step daughter chooses a deadbeat dad over you, her step dad that STEPPED up and raised her for 10 years, then she's not a good person
@DrKristalNoggin @MomsPostingLs He's paying for the wedding! If the daughter had an ounce of respect she could have at least had both step and biological Dad walk her down.