Akere we are woke and want to dismantle all cultural practices without understanding the reason they existed. The first 3 months after giving birth mom & child must move back home so her mother & family can support her and LET HER REST and HEAL.
Akere we are woke and want to dismantle all cultural practices without understanding the reason they existed. The first 3 months after giving birth mom & child must move back home so her mother & family can support her and LET HER REST and HEAL.
How will you rest and heal ole ko apartment with a baby daddy who is completely clueless, frustrated and anxious. Parenthood will completely destroy that Relationship and worse, the Relationship will completely destroy Mother. As a result, child will bear the burden.
I do not agree with this take as a recommended solution to the problem presented. Do I think she needs to rest and heal? Yes. I just don't understand how the 3 month break prevents a break-up and nurtures a healthy parenting relationship when 1 of the parties is absent during that critical period.
@LordVizo__ lol that’s even worse because then he will cheat while the mom and baby are at home.
@LordVizo__ Really? So who is supposed to play the role of the father to the newborn? Why is he exempt? Are we not correcting childhood traumas & this string of depressed adults by dismantling some of those cultural practices that weren't beneficial to people. I don't think this helps them.
@LordVizo__ The support from ones mom/mom in law is invaluable but it’s not always practical to go home for a number of reasons.My mom came to our house and her presence made all the difference!
@LordVizo__ Having kids was meant for married couples but because siyaphapha that’s why we didn’t survive
@LordVizo__ So he can feba nge peace? No, men are just horrible people. Fathers attend antenatal classes to learn how to take care of a baby. You all even let your women consult alone until they give birth, is it still culture??? Sitting at the reception while she’s in the ward alone in pain
@LordVizo__ @_callmepee And some guy will take this serious and tell his woman to go home after giving birth, and then the relationship will end because of following nonsense advices like this one! Relationships end because people are influenced by social media.