As a woman who doesn’t consciously want children, the truth about it is that from time to time i feel guilty about it because that’s what society tells you you should want. At 25 I didn’t want. At 35, i still don’t want
It is just a need that hasn’t manifested itself to me yet and i hope it remains that way
@Mochievous At some point in my life, I did think I’d never have children but now, I want nothing more. My blood and flesh.🥹
@Mochievous whatever you do, don't change on this.
@Mochievous I can understand feeling guilty because that's what your parents would want, I don't understand the society part
@Mochievous Everyone should be allowed to make their choices. No one should be pressured into doing what doesn't fit into their career or value system.
@Mochievous Nothing wrong with it, if you don't want it. Who says there is?
@Mochievous There’s no reason to fell guilty. I have said it before. Children are not necessarily the reason for marriage or companionship. People, especially fellow Nigerians, feel I’m crazy to think this way.