This social mistake kills the desire to talk to you. It's an automatic defence mode. People will often exaggerate things you tell them to make it seem like what you said doesn't make sense. I'll give you an example: If I tell you to stop saying this one thing that I don't like and your response is, "Well I better keep my mouth shut and never say a word again so I don't make a mistake". That kind of response twists my words to avoid the issue. This shows a lack of IQ and understanding of the situation. Be aware.