Breakups hurt, but losing someone who doesn’t respect and appreciate you is a gain, not a loss.
@StephanSpeaks Turning pain into empowerment--> losing disrespect is a win.
You're absolutely right. Breakups can be challenging, but sometimes they can lead to personal growth and new opportunities. Losing someone who doesn't respect and appreciate you can be a blessing in disguise. It allows you to focus on building relationships with people who value and cherish you for who you are. Remember, self-care and self-love are essential during these times, and it's okay to take time for yourself to heal and move forward. You deserve to be treated with kindness, respect, and appreciation. 💛💪
It depends, because what if they don't respect and appreciate you because of the things you do? What if, in our own exaggerated perception of ourselves, we are the cause of them leaving and avoid looking in the mirror? Unless someone's perception of the world is truly twisted, no-one leaves a respectable and valuable person, because everyone knows they are a needle in barnyards full of haystacks.
@StephanSpeaks I would turn disappointments like this into blessings.
@StephanSpeaks Take the lessons they give you but don't carry the pain