Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal

@ServeMissLana Sometimes a man realises that to express his greatest potential he must do it through submission to a woman who can help him by channelling his immense energy, thereby by making him even better

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Miss Lana @ServeMissLana

20 hours ago

Some of the most assertive, accomplished men I've encountered have also been deeply submissive. I think people struggle with that because they assume submission is something that happens to weak men. Sometimes it's a deliberate choice made by a man who spends the rest of his life being in charge.

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Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal

16 hours ago

He wanted to feel jealous, helpless, and very turned on. Finally, a client with clear objectives.

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L @scarlet_rose_L

2 days ago

字母圈是真的有「壁」的。不是金钱，不是物质，也不是物理意义上的壁，而是认知。圈内人之间，存在着一些不言而喻的共识。比如，女性sub/m并不是可以随意践踏、玩弄的母狗；女性Dom/S也不是供男sub/m发情时喊妈妈、用来满足性幻想的工具；男性Dom/S不是既要爆金币、又要提供情绪价值的大冤种；男性sub/m更不是没有自尊、自轻自贱的废物。大家各自有不同的XP，有不同的喜好和需求，但至少有一个最基本的共识：我们默认，对方是和自己一样的人。我们是同好，是一群恰好拥有某些非常规癖好的人。很多女性sub，是认真读书、努力工作的小姑娘；很多男性Dom，也不过是每天为生活奔波的苦逼牛马；女性Dom看起来是气场强大的御姐，私底下可能也贪玩、爱撒娇；而那些愿意跪下、戴上项圈的男性sub，或许是履历金光闪闪、在自己的领域里独当一面的精英。当然，也不必非得优秀、体面、事业有成，才配得到尊重。一个人的XP，从来不足以定义他是怎样的人。喜欢臣服，不意味着没有尊严；享受支配，不意味着有义务满足任何人的欲望。情境中的权力不对等，也从来不等于人格上的不平等。我们都有自己的生活，有工作，有学业，有朋友，有家人，有柴米油盐，也有各自的烦恼和快乐。放下小皮鞭，摘下项圈，大家都是普通人。是每天上班下班、上学放学，会在地铁里擦肩而过，会在便利店排队结账，会在街头偶然相遇的芸芸众生。

Dmitry @Dmitry_BDSM

2 days ago

圈外人對BDSM圈子的誤解與偏見，確實比想像中還要嚴重當圈內一些貼文擴散到圈外，有時圈外人的評論會讓我感到惱火也許是難以想像，或者是三觀受到衝擊，畢竟權力如此懸殊的互動模式，很能激起一般人的反應

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Alla @sunrisefall

a day ago

I don’t like men who’re nonchalant and casual. I like them nervous, eager, obsessed, trembling, barely hiding their erection, stuttering, awkward, chasing, simping and a little clumsy🥰