If I cut off communication with you it is likely because you didn't want to meet me halfway in some regard and it's taking a toll on my mental health, that is literally the ONLY reason why I stop talking to people I was once close with
and ngl, most times I don't voice that because I'm already being emotionally exploited and I don't want to argue about whether or not you think you have a negative impact on my mental health. I don't feel safe sharing bc I was shown I'm not considered in the equation.
@pinkhekate there are other reasons for cutting people off??
@pinkhekate I made a decision on this a long time ago no one is allowed to stay in my life if they are fucking with my mental health. Constantly getting disregarded by people that call themselves caring about me but won't accommodate simple ass conversations about clarity.
@pinkhekate And trust me, they know!
@pinkhekate The Wild part is, he got mad at ME for doing this. I was like “Oh NOW, you want to acknowledge me? When you’re angry that I’ve stopped talking to you? Coolcoolcool 👍🏽”
@pinkhekate Especially when you tell them how they made u feel regarding your mental health, they say they care but where are the actions? A little bit can go along way really just show me you care and not just say it! actions are louder then words.
@pinkhekate @joanmelly Never let anyone cost you your peace of mind...not even family!
@pinkhekate Literally felt this so deep , best way said
@pinkhekate How do you get to this mindset , I've tried to do this plenty of times but it just doesn't stay , my mental health is so bad at this point that I don't know how to cut people off without thinking how they may feel.
@pinkhekate This is EXACTLY what I’m going through with someone I thought was a friend. It hurts, but it feels better to see my feelings put into words and relate to you and everyone 😌
@pinkhekate being blown off and pushed aside over and over by someone who claims to care for you is a form of gaslighting!
@pinkhekate @quecianawalton This is literally what I've been trying to articulate, thank you.
@pinkhekate @JadasDivinaton Let’s talk again if you want call me o look for me you know where I’m work 🤩
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@pinkhekate @thewaterbxtch Feeling this lately. Thank you.
@pinkhekate I felt this to some degree, I rarely If at all do this but thanks to my first ex my importance in communication is at the tippy top and not having that plays a very dangerous game I don’t want a part of, so I think it’s only fair. I give so many chances, but even I have a limit.
@pinkhekate @thewaterbxtch Oh wow 😳, this is Amazing
@pinkhekate @_aishala So true!🥺By far the hardest thing to do especially when you significantly care! But its a last resort and often times the best resort!🕊
