Ashlee Zindel @alienashlarae

Let things END. It’s ok

do you ever get secondhand happiness? like someone is happy so you’re happy cos they’re happy

Friends are soul mates too. There is so much love in a real genuine friendship.

women love deciding to never talk to you again and actually do it 😂

tbh i love strict people… like yes, you don’t tolerate nonsense and you stand firm on what you say 😭

"you handled it so well." no, i didn't. i went insane, lost my spark, bled in silence, shattered in private, and wore a smile that lied better than any mask could.

and if love finds me again, i pray it’s someone who values me & protects my heart.

i hope every lover girl finds her super calm gentleman who is unashamedly and insanely obsessed with her

Read that again

I love romance. I’m such a lover girl. 💘

Celibacy becomes very easy for a woman when she realizes that there is literally no man worth being involved with if he isn't helping to improve her life and loving her correctly. She can go months on top of months, it's really nothing.

The “silent treatment” doesn’t work on me because lack of communication makes me never want to speak to you again. Especially at our big ages.

You cannot immediately unlove what you loved unless you never loved it anyway.

The realest advice I can give you today is to let people earn their place in your life. We are so quick to give, grant access and make sacrifices for others without proper consideration, only to end up disappointed by unmet expectations. Take your time, beloved.

Mentally sick, physically thick! 🤭

If you are emotionally more sensitive than others, please do yourself a favor and date people who won’t judge you for experiencing emotions to the degree that you do. If your trauma has shaped you to possess great depths then date people who aren’t afraid to reach them.

A NARCISSIST is someone who says a lot at first, but NEVER stands by their word. They’ll paint the future you’ve always dreamed of, only to deliver a NIGHTMARE you’ll have to recover from. That’s NOT love.

Outta this world, I’m so sci-fi

once you give me that space to think & detach it’s a wrap fr.