raw saturday evening thoughts before I lock in for the rest of the night:
Last 12 months I've helped multiple ecom brands scale to $1M/month and beyond
Taught quite a few people how to quit their 9-5 and start doing creative strategy
Yet as I sit here about to down another RedBull, I'm realizing something they don't tell you about success:
It's just trading one set of problems for another
When you're broke, you think money solves everything
When you make money, you realize time is what's actually valuable
When you grow, your problems don't disappear, they just change:
Stage 1: "what the fuck am I even doing with my life?"
Test different things until something clicks
Stop overthinking and start executing
Books won't solve this, only action will
Stage 2: "how do I actually make good money by doing this?"
Focus on solving real problems people actually have
Get results first, worry about scaling later
Create so much value they can't ignore you
Stage 3: "how do I scale beyond myself?"
Build systems before building teams
Document every process like your life depends on it
Learn to let go of control (hardest part)
I've solved all these
But my current stage? I don't know how to solve it.
How do I make sure I'm not that guy who "succeeded" but missed his own fucking life?
The competition is so goddamn low these days
Everyone's addicted to instant gratification
Nobody can focus for more than 20 minutes
So just showing up every day and working hard for 12+ hours gives you INSANE advantage over your competition
That's great for business
But shit for your personal life
I have goals bigger than myself, I want to build huge things, and it takes a lot of time and effort to get there
But while I'm locked in and building at 2AM, my fiancé is asleep
While I'm working weekends, my fam is sending me messages asking when I'll be back from the office
And they're the only reason why I started this whole thing
Not for Lambos (never gave a shit)
Not for status (waste of time)
I see all these posts about guys "helping" parents by buying them shit
But my mom doesn't want a Rolex
She wants to drink coffee with me in the morning
That's my struggle now
I built a life that can provide anything we need, but can't give them the one thing they actually want - my time
I don't want to be the guy who "made it" but has nobody to celebrate with
So yeah, still deep in the trenches with this one, haven't figured it out
Will share lessons when I have them
Maybe you're in the same spot. Maybe you're going to be. Maybe you've figured it out.
For those ahead: how do you balance it all?
"It will pass."
I’ve always loved that saying.
It’s a quiet truth—learned in heavy moments when everything feels lost, but also in flashes of light when everything feels right again.
Good, bad, it all comes and goes like waves. Only to return once more.
I feel the urge to write this.
I'm studying medicine—third year, halfway through. The person who started this journey is not the same one standing here today.
I just want to take it all in—to breathe deeply, to watch closely, to embrace the beauty of simplicity; to finally understand what it means to be truly present.
A weary heart learns to appreciate the unremarkable, the in-between moments that so often escape our grasp. It clings to simplicity, to passing chances, to the gentle passage of time.
Now, three years later, it’s consuming me from the inside out—invading, spreading, metastasizing into every aspect of my life. It’s relentless, leaving behind exhausted and ravaged tissue, hollowing me out piece by piece. I have no energy left for anything.
Spent a weekend in the Slovenian mountains to unplug for a bit
The masculine urge to make a ton of money, buy 800 acres, raise a family, and start an off the grid self-sufficient farm with everyone else who cares about health is immense
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