Settle a debate! If someone (my husband😆) volunteers to do the dishes I'm assuming that means they're wiping down counters and rinsing the sink. Am I wrong?
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@bebe1969 Unless he is capable of reading your mind/you share that expectation, absent that it is 1000000% wrong for you to expect that. Unexpressed expectations are one of the biggest reasons relationships don't work
@bebe1969 Dishes means committing- wash, dry, put away, counters/sink - dry. the whole shebang
@bebe1969 My late husband used to clear the table & put dishes into dishwasher. Which was a big deal for him. But wiping counters & table, etc. was always done by me. Men just don’t realize that part of clearing the table.