Kaji @ickynsoft

@delonperc that we are a part of a big family and absolutely not alone. we just tend to work invisibly, it’s silly but that’s just how we tend to be even after healing lol

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@delonperc experienced cptsd is absolutely capable of leading healthy lives. many cptsd survivors who are now grown are fully at work trying to change our social services, trying to make resources more available, they’re doing everything they can for themselves and us, and we must remember

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Kaji @ickynsoft

13 hours ago

@delonperc difficult which is why i’ve worked for years to develop my skills and become self reliant. but the biggest tragedy for me regarding my cptsd was not the trauma itself, it was my sense of whimsy and ability to relate to things. the art i enjoy, the games i like to play, the

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Kaji @ickynsoft

13 hours ago

@delonperc spotting abuse but also led me straight to it. my walls and safety measures were a necessary response to save me from said abuse but it would also get in the way of genuine human connection. it was a rocky road where i had no idea what i was doing and yes trust feels extremely

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Kaji @ickynsoft

13 hours ago

@delonperc well, i have cptsd. yes, internet therapy is harmful but its harmful because arguments are always framed as a>b or b>a, whereas things like trust etc require a lot more nuance. i had to reside my intuition as my intuition was trained on trauma so my intuition was great at

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Kaji @ickynsoft

a day ago

@AcctPogo @MargBarHawaii acting mightier than thou. you don’t wanna read then don’t, i’m gonna do my best to say what actually needs to be said

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Kaji @ickynsoft

a day ago

@AcctPogo @MargBarHawaii you read too little and when you do it’s nonsense. and you fear monger for clicks and likes. i just spread awareness you capitalize on people feeling miserable. i work hard and am the one usually picking up the pieces of this nonsense in the clinic, you sit behind your phone

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Kaji @ickynsoft

a day ago

@AcctPogo @MargBarHawaii all an avoidant person needs is a hug. their head is full of a lot of overthinking and they bring their past social interactions into new social interactions. also why avoidants tend to go for the charming/laid back dude who goes around giving everyone hugs and is confident in

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Kaji @ickynsoft

a day ago

@Bnkz90 lol. you sir have more avoidant traits than you realize

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Kaji @ickynsoft

a day ago

@AcctPogo @MargBarHawaii you yourself will reach a point of burnout with these apps and will isolate yourself and call it self care. this era of therapy speak and self help is ruining generations

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Kaji @ickynsoft

a day ago

@AcctPogo @MargBarHawaii because someone else can read their minds. dating is extremely simple, its just these phones, the copious amounts of bs information and the overwhelming access to social interactions that will absolutely fry anyone’s brain. if you think you’re not an avoidant person, give it time