I feel that sometimes ppl enjoy the idea of you, or the convenience of your presence/energy..but have no desire to nurture that. so then they expect for you to ride the wave of their inconsistencies when in actuality…hell naw. lol.
Sometimes people are oblivious, not malicious. They crave that positive energy you bring, but don't understand the work it takes to sustain genuine friendship. Maybe gently call them out, see if they're willing to change. BUT, protect yourself first! Don't pour all your warmth into someone who leaves you feeling drained.
@ivourth @MccoyNeni You can only tolerate things like this to some certain level
@ivourth @Sincerely_AO Isn't expecting them to nurture your idea technically the same thing as you also enjoying the convinience of their presence?
@ivourth Everyone: *tries me* Me: Is it time for you to leave, now you've been pissed off?😀 Everyone: *leaves*