K. @kafkaex

This tremendous world I have inside me datingbyk.com Joined October 2022

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K. @kafkaex

17 hours ago

most men understand style matters. clothes, accessories. but few ever think about furniture, about the space they live in. you should make at least one room in your home as beautiful as possible. your environment is not decoration, it's part of your character. just a few…

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17 hours ago

i’ve pretty much mastered what a strong dating profile looks like. last week i worked with a guy who already had success on the apps. he wasn’t struggling, he just wanted to optimize. two things stood out immediately. first, his prompts. they were so unique and specific that i…

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17 hours ago

a man without darkness is unfinished. it’s the edge that drives you past comfort, keeps you ruthless with your own errors, and sharp when it matters. hold it, or it will hold you.

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2 days ago

I watched this happen with a friend. She had two guys. One she called “whatever, he’s fine.” If he ghosted for days, didn’t text, saw other girls - no reaction. The other guy she actually liked. Handsome, charming, potential. That’s the one she punished. If he took a few hours…

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4 days ago

everyone you meet carries moments you’ll never live, feelings you’ll never feel. it’s in their eyes, their voice, their stories. be someone who can sit with anyone, anywhere, and draw from that. you’ll move through the world with depth. others will feel it.

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5 days ago

She chose you over dozens of other guys because you were actively trying to win her. The moment you stop being that guy, she starts remembering why those other guys were interested too.

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5 days ago

Too many people, men and women alike, make the mistake of believing that once they’ve secured someone’s affection, the work of attraction is over. It isn’t. The truth is that courtship is often expensive, uncomfortable, and uncertain, so many people don’t actually enjoy dating.…

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7 days ago

sprezzatura is the art of making attraction feel effortless. but here’s the truth: it’s not effortless at all. it takes years of exposure, trial, and experience. that’s why the common advice to ‘focus on yourself in your 20s’ only goes so far. yes, build yourself. but don’t…

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a week ago

The currency isn't boats or borrowed confidence. It's fluency, speaking the dialect of her universe without translation. Energy that says: I've been here before, in rooms like this, with women like you, and somehow didn't shatter everything I touched.

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a week ago

My space. The lamps are Noguchi, the side table’s Eames, and the seating’s a Modernica Case Study Daybed. Off to the side is a Herman Miller Embody chair.

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a week ago

If you’re just starting to upgrade your style, think of it in 3 tiers: 1. UNIQLO – Affordable basics that fit well + great collabs with real designers. 2. COS – Elevated basics, minimal + fashion-forward. 3. SSENSE – Start layering in designer pieces. Everything here is quality.

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a week ago

You can just ask for her number.

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2 weeks ago

You can just ask for her number. https://t.co/4ssQHnHyUI

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a week ago

if you want higher quality people in your life, you have to become higher quality yourself. don't just rely on first impressions. build a life, an ascent, a presence that lasts. when you're more than who you were, everything else follows.

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2 weeks ago

One of the most important lessons I’ve ever learned was to differentiate between short-term and long-term partners. Look, beauty is a helluva drug, I know. But you’ll thank yourself later.

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2 weeks ago

One of the most important lessons I’ve ever learned was to differentiate between short-term and long-term partners. Look, beauty is a helluva drug, I know. But you’ll thank yourself later.

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2 weeks ago

Opening yourself up isn’t about oversharing or playing vulnerable. It’s about throwing yourself into the world instead of hiding from it. Most men retreat. They fold in on themselves, afraid to fail, afraid to look foolish. But the act of stepping forward, of entering the arena,…

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2 weeks ago

Most men aren’t afraid of commitment. We commit to careers, training, discipline, businesses. The issue isn’t fear, it’s the offer. Commitment is sacrifice. If the relationship doesn’t improve his life, he won’t take the deal. Men don’t fear commitment. They fear wasting it.