Joe Fitzgerald @kindgap

With just two quick pincer attacks Bostonians could bag their two exclusionary suburban salients and increase their territory by ~1/3rd

Dion @2024dion

5 months ago

Bostonians uniquely among American urban denizens are a seafaring people

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@HeidiPriebe1 Alas, being human and having self-defenses built into our self-concepts makes it nearly if not entirely impossible to honestly answer a question like the one you suggest: "Would I date someone who behaved just like me in relationships?" --> Of course I would, I'm amazing 😉😂

@Velatrix let's collab

But also: not even conflict. Relationships of any sort, imo, are about finding people who are tackling problems with their lives that we find interesting, and want to support them on and/or join in on.

@HeidiPriebe1 I could recommend a brilliant YouTube channel for unpacking that guilt 🤭😉

Let us hope that MAGA bigotry wakes up transphobic "leftists". Trans rights are human rights. theguardian.com/us-news/2025/f…

6. The most insidious toxic behaviors we have are almost always things we have categorized to be good or even noble behaviors inside our own minds. These are usually behaviors that were adaptive for us growing up (and so their usefulness was endlessly reinforced) but that are no longer appropriate or reasonable in the realm of adult-to-adult relating. We are most immune to feedback on these things and are quickest to dismiss or degenerate people who bring their inappropriateness to our attention. These are also the places where our deepest and most powerful growth opportunities lie.

my year was so awful my relatives don't even ask me about my career or boyfriends. my uncle just called me the definition of strengh

@HeidiPriebe1 Hbd friend 🎂 look forward to whatever next year has in store 💘 I would LOVE to see you intersect your work more with gender, sexuality, patriarchy, masculinity... I.e. sign me up for parts 2 thru 100 of your dialogue with @Deezy2_Blessed & @LetsGoCNote years back.

@HeidiPriebe1 @kellycwilde You're doing better than great Heidi 💐 behold the profound gift your insights comprise for countless digital strangers. Your hiatus is FELT! 🫂 Stoked for new content when the time is right, meanwhile persisting in solidarity with your courage to embody love in its truest form.

@marchofclowns Do you have instruments available? It would be my honor to join the 🤡 drumline!