Good healthy polyamory exists. I promise you it does. I am just so sick of people using that word to manipulate and lie. Ugh. Fuck people like this who give it a bad name.
Also the word polyamory comes from “loving many” Stop sexualizing the word. It’s not always about sex.
@laurelrothamel Yeah, I am scared of even trying it as I feel like I would just get burned one way or another.
@laurelrothamel Preach! My boyfriend, husband, best friend, (all male) and I live together very happily most days. We all bicker occasionally, but everyone has their days. I also seem to have a ton of trust in my partners that most women don’t. 🤷♀️
@laurelrothamel Yeah this situation honestly doesn't read as a polyam issue this is on gabe and the way he decided to treat people Polyamory didn't prescribe any of his actions
@laurelrothamel That's why I know I am polyam. I have so much love to give. Someday though when I'm ready I'll give it another try
@laurelrothamel Yeah I’ve always thought true polyamory would be exploited/abused to excuse others just cheating on partners. Like you said, people like that just give in a bad name
@laurelrothamel It does, however I think the number of people who are able to engage in it is small. You have to be someone who can love someone without getting that jealous attachment or that need to compare yourself against others. There are not many who can do all that.
@laurelrothamel as someone who's actively in an a polyamorous relationship ship, it is the most healthy and happy relationship I've ever had. communication and openness is a priority between us.
@laurelrothamel I think the issue is that too many people confuse poly with enm and it creates a massive disconnect in what people are looking for in partners. I know I’m just some random dude but if you want to talk or just have your voice heard my dms are open 💕