I wish everyone fully understood that men who have paraphilias are more dangerous than men who don’t have them. Once you realise that a majority of “transwomen” are just men with paraphilias, it explains what you are looking at with this whole “debate”. It particularly explains the horrible consequences women, and girls, are suffering now that society insists on putting these men into our spaces and insisting they are “women”. Women and girls have been sexually assaulted, and raped, and subject to other forms of violence as a result. The presence of paraphilia also explains the toxicity, narcissism, and abuse thrown at women for saying no to this group of men: predatory men do not like the word no. Gender identity is such a red herring, and if you’re still looking at this issue through that lens; you’ve been had.