I'm admonishing OUR generation. I can't change what our parents have done. My parents are guilty of many things but I wouldn't blame them for their ignorance. I saw a lot of mistakes in my parents but I think about how to be better when I have my own kids. Simple
@Vikteneus The thing is this goes for all countries we all see mistakes are own parents make n we in turn can only hope we don’t do the same with r own kids. My mom worked hard to pay bills why my dad was in hospital for a year with cancer. Obviously my circumstances are different.
@Vikteneus My late husband passed. There is no work in my area so I can only hope that holly grows to understand that I tried my best by her but I would never wish for her to cater for me she had her own life to lead.
@honeyjd75 You get! Unmarried people like myself shouldn't have that mentality of seeing children as investment when we still have the opportunity to save for our future. Children should be the last resort.
@Vikteneus True n I don’t see it with holly she has her whole life ahead of her n is free to choose her path. I can only be the mom n help her rather than hinder her
@honeyjd75 You're good. All things being equal, a parent should raise a child until he/she is an adult and set him/her up. Sending money home should be willingly not the parents feeling entitled.
@Vikteneus Exactly it’s should be there own choice if they wish