Pam Stafford @staffordwcss
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A6: There are three: Asking better questions, Increasing emotional connections, & Controlling emotions. The first two I have started trying to implement recently. The 3rd is something I have actually been practicing more over the last three years. #ISDBears23
A5: Reliability & Character are two factors I think you need when having those tough conversations. They set the foundation for trust, which is key to having a valuable & beneficial conversation & aid in bringing some form of resolution. #ISDBears23
A4: In the book they mention several characteristics. Reliability and competence sets the foundation. Warmth seals the deal in providing a safe environment, especially in those tough conversations #ISDBears23
A3: I believe teaching the methods to our students will help the be stronger at sharing ideas without fear of negative pushback. In turn they will become confident conversationists in their own right. #ISDBears23
A2: I use interruption a lot, it allows a reset and redirect quickly before to much is said. It is hard to consider "silence", but as I read I realize I also employ the silence method. #ISDBears23
A1: It is another way to take a mental break, to step away for a second and calibrate your timing & response, while making a conversation continue towards the negative. I like how in the book he references the balcony. #ISDBears23
A6: This question hit close to home...a few years ago, many of my conversations tended to lend towards avoidance/toxic. Post COVID I have seek common denominators, building on common interests...leading to has led to more positive connections. #ISDBears23
A5: Interest/activities/experiences are my typical go to when having to make connections & set a common ground. It also forces me to listen & not interrupt as I seek the connecting piece. #ISDBears23
A4: I have always struggled w/ how to provide sincere praise. I always felt that I come up short, but the example helps put into perspective that tone/body language & focus is what is important in the message. #ISDBears23
A3: I need to check in w/my fellow teachers more & be more intentional w/students body language & focus. As I my engagement w/ the class is just as important as their engagement. #ISDBears23
A2: Turning toward is a practice I have trained myself to do over the last few years. I pause what I am doing & look to the person speaking. My student have recognized this & have voice appreciation in the past. #ISDBears23
A1: My students typically like to hang back after class & ask questions. Also, an elbow or should tap is typical signals in my classroom. #ISDBears23
A1: The quote is a reminder of what our role as a listener should be. IF we imagine what it is to be interrupted, receive unwanted advice, or be judged...then the imaginary shoes are the reminder of what our purpose is in the conversation. #ISDBears23
Pam Stafford, Soc Studies @ Chrisman. Why do firefighters carry catnip on their trucks? #ISDBears23
A2-I agree with Brett on the components of a productive conversation. In addition a put a lot of value on the equal partnership #ISDBears23
I have used top-down in several ways, mostly when I laying out goals & plans for organizing field trips or events. I have to confess, after reading I kinda cringe at how I might come across using this method. #ISDBears23
Chrisman and Van Horn APUSH students closed out the year with visits to @TheWHDC to explore a simulation on Truman’s decisions in relation to Korea. We are so thankful for the Truman Library’s partnership and these opportunities for our students!
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853 Followers 184 Following Developing engaged citizens who use knowledge and skills to make informed decisions. - Managed by @nicollettevwThank you so much for being willing to participate in our reading of Better Conversations. #ISDBears23
I love Jim Knight’s suggestion that we use cards at the end of class so that each student responds to the question “do you feel safe in this class?” #ISDBears23
Reframe is something that I've heard our school psychs talk a lot about - looking at a situation differently. I also like to remind myself that I don't know what I don't know -- applies to lots of situations. #ISDBears23
Thank you for joining us tonight! We hope to see you on Wednesday, December 6 as we discuss chapters 8-9. #ISDBears23
A6: I like to try and find common denominators with Ss in particular - their shirts and clothes can give so many clues. But, then again, I've also learned to ask "Are you a fan of ___ or is it just a shirt" #ISDBears23
A4: Probably ridiculous, but I hadn't thought of giving compliments as the same as feedback. But, I connected that in PBIS we focus on specific, immediate feedback. Seems my compliments really need to be the same! #ISDBears23
@staffordwcss Agreed! I imagine sometimes the questions are content related and sometimes just opportunities to chat. #ISDBears23
Thank you for participating in tonight's twitter chat. Be sure to join us for our next chat over chapters 6 & 7 on Wednesday, November 29th! #ISDBears23
@staffordwcss @BrettPlayter I remember being told or reading that the "boss" should never give their answer or feelings first or many in the room will just agree with them and you won't really know the thoughts of others. That's always stuck with me #ISDBears23
A5: I mean, is there a better spokesperson for what we are learning in this book? #ISDBears23
@staffordwcss @BrettPlayter I agree our schedule can block our ability to pause and listen. I think breathing is good strategy. It can be about the "timing" so a longer pause is sometimes needed to be more present to listen #ISDBears23
@staffordwcss @mstinanewman @BrettPlayter Many times, for me, I really do think it is about excitement about a topic or what is being talked about. Rarely is it intended. Doesn't mean I don't need to do a lot better though #ISDBears23
@BrettPlayter A3: I could improve on pausing to think before responding. I always want to give people a quick reply because it seems polite but sometimes taking time to think about it is a better approach #ISDBears23
@staffordwcss @BrettPlayter There may be times when I need to do a lot of breathing and a lot of counting! 😆 I think these are both good strategies if you practice them as grounding techniques #ISDBears23
@BrettPlayter Megan, teacher. Someone asked me today if I was still a teacher or if I just walk around the school all of the time 🙃 #ISDBears23
Tonight we will use the Q1-A1 format. Please be sure to comment on the thinking of others and use #ISDBears23 in your posts!
Thank you so much for joining us tonight for our first chat over Better Conversations, chapters 1-2. I really hope everyone is able to join us next week to discuss chapters 3-5. #ISDBears23
@staffordwcss @cristinnowak This nailed it Pam. Something I need to be more wary of in my conversations. It is ok to just listen and actually hear what is being said. Sometimes I am thinking about my response and missing some of what is trying to be communicated. #ISBears23
Q4: I am going to put this in a different sense, but I think about email vs. phone/personal contact. There are numerous times I have seen an email be misinterpreted or taken the wrong way, when a phone/personal communication would have been more effective. #ISDBears23