Really wish I had friends that’d be down to hangout masked. Even covid aware ppl don’t wanna. I just want to not have to do the mental gymnastics of making sure they are safe enough without interrogating them or making them feel like I don’t trust them. I don’t. It’s not personal
1) I’m pretty sure I have bpd and 2) people lie. It’s not paranoid to understand that some people will lie if they don’t think it’s big deal. I have no way of knowing where their priorities are if we never have an in-depth probably uncomfortable conversation.
@stimmy_neutron why not take a test and hang out unmasked if tested negative?
@stimmy_neutron I will, but you're probably not in the same town as I am
@stimmy_neutron After a long time of not having this, I just recently found a group of people and we hang out masked and it’s great. I found them by chance after years of being disappointed. I hope you find your unicorn friends 🫶