I stopped mentioning stuff I did for people out of the kindness of my heart once I figured out what about one of my siblings bothers me so much.
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She’s very transactional. She’ll do something for you, often stuff she offered herself btw, but four years down the line she’ll remind you, especially if she asks you to do something for her but you decline.
It’s how she tells all her friends ‘I educated her (me) and my other siblings’ because she sent me occasional pocket money when I was in school. Meanwhile I graduated Medical school with a 645k HELB that I paid off fully myself. 😒