AJ @RubyStar_22

someone looking for their purpose and where they fit in in this huge world… USA Joined August 2016

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AJ @RubyStar_22

4 days ago

It's hard to put into words the relief you feel the moment you finally walk out of a job that's left you completely burned out...It's like your entire body exhales for the first time in months...

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You don't owe loyalty to someone who betrayed you just to stay comfortable. Betrayal is not a mistake, it' a decision, and it tells you where you stand. Loyalty after that protects the betrayer, not the relationship, and it robs you of peace and self-respect. -Robert Wilkinson

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AJ @RubyStar_22

6 days ago

Nothing will destroy a great employee like watching your employer tolerate & reward the bad ones

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AJ @RubyStar_22

a week ago

Acting offended when you're confronted isn't hurt, it's a tactic to avoid accountability. It' 's manipulation designed to silence you, to stop the conversation, and to make you feel guilty for speaking truth while their behavior remains unchecked. -Robert Wilkinson

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AJ @RubyStar_22

a week ago

When it's over, leave. Don't continue watering a dead flower-there's a garden of new beginnings waiting for you.

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AJ @RubyStar_22

a week ago

Sometimes people pretend you’re a bad person so they don’t feel guilty about the things they did to you.

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AJ @RubyStar_22

2 weeks ago

Never trust someone who gets angry at you for being hurt by what they did. Your reaction isn't the problem, their behavior is. Don't let them twist the blame. Ryan Hwa

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AJ @RubyStar_22

2 weeks ago

Someone who uses your justified anger against you, especially when it stems from their bad behaviour, is deeply manipulative at their core.

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AJ @RubyStar_22

2 weeks ago

Please understand that they wanted your reaction to their disrespect, because then they could use your reaction to paint you as the problem and deflect from their own toxic and bad behaviors

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AJ @RubyStar_22

2 weeks ago

Punishing someone with silence isn't maturity, it's emotional control. That silence is calculated to make you feel small, desperate, and unworthy while they tighten their grip. It's not distance, it's punishment, and it leaves you carrying the blame. -Robert Wilkinson

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AJ @RubyStar_22

2 weeks ago

When toxic people realize they can't control you, their next move is to hurt you by changing how others see you. That's next-level manipulation.

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AJ @RubyStar_22

3 weeks ago

Whoever is trying to bring you down, is already below you.

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AJ @RubyStar_22

3 weeks ago

The truth is… Too many workplaces would rather lose half their staff than hold one toxic leader accountable

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AJ @RubyStar_22

3 weeks ago

It didn't matter how clearly or how loudly I spoke. My voice was unheard, and my words sounded unbelievable.

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AJ @RubyStar_22

3 weeks ago

Don't apologize for walking away when they only stayed to drain you. Their presence wasn't love,it was control.They fed on your patience and silence while giving nothing back. Leaving isn't betrayal,it's survival,& it's the moment you chose your worth over their abuse.RWilkinson

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AJ @RubyStar_22

3 weeks ago

If someone makes you feel unvalued, don't argue. Just step back and let silence speak what words can't. Let them realize your worth.

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AJ @RubyStar_22

3 weeks ago

When toxic people realize they can't control you, their next move is to hurt you by changing how others see you. That's next-level manipulation. Kris Reece

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AJ @RubyStar_22

3 weeks ago

They'll accuse you of being the problem so no one questions the harm they caused.Accusation shifts the spotlight and forces you to defend yourself while their abuse stays hidden. It' s manipulation meant to silence you,protect their image,& block accountability. -Robert Wilkinson