tutor vals🔸 @TutorVals

philosophy and psychology, understanding and community. good reasoning and systemized winning enjoyer. dm me your life problems. private alt @tutor_vals_alt Paris, France Joined June 2022

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ja3k @ja3k_

12 hours ago

"No man steps in the same river twice for he is not the same man and it is not the same river" hits a little different every time I hear it

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a friend asked, what’s it like having a toddler? I said it’s great but also stressful because they have more autonomy than sense. we laughed about it and thought about how that might apply to us too. then contemplated how we tend to suppress autonomy rather than cultivate sense

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tutor vals🔸 @TutorVals

a day ago

I was vivid daydreaming I was in a carriage pulled by a tractor and it detached so I was freewheeling downhill My best course of action imo was to jump out before it accelerated further, but I didn't, because jumping up irl would have hurt! Unsure my brain learnt the right thing

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tutor vals🔸 @TutorVals

5 days ago

You know you're in love when the thought of reading twitter after separating disgusts you, how dare it try to remove you from the memories and lingering moments, from every savor and touch. At most, you may share your thoughts - the world is more beautiful than you could know.

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Rudra Dakini @the_wilderless

a week ago

Just to bookmark how strongly your quality of attention matters: When you’re pleasuring someone sexually/sensually — there’s undeniable massive difference when you do it absentmindedly or in a goal-oriented way, Versus when you do it from love, passion, connection, deep…

Rudra Dakini @the_wilderless

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EigenGender @EigenGender

2 weeks ago

yes it would be much easier for the machines in the matrix to make a nuclear power plant than to use humans for their body heat. but it’s really hard to get past the environmental impact stage for a power plant so this was easier.

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Lucy Farnik @lucyfarnik

2 weeks ago

I'm looking for an informal PhD supervisor in LLMs/post-training — any recommendations? My supervisor is leaving academia & the rest of the dep't doesn't work on LLMs, so I'm hoping to find someone external to collaborate with More info 👇, RTs appreciated! 🙏

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tutor vals🔸 @TutorVals

2 weeks ago

if ur type is "women with mental health issues" you are probably on the triangle of victim, whether abuser or rescuer lynneforrest.com/articles/2008/… none have to come with bad intentions, but mostly come with bad dynamics you can recognize and step off the triangle progressively

Tenobrus @tenobrus

2 weeks ago

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teddy @sunsettler

2 weeks ago

"thick skin" is an intermediate stage, eventually you realize that the "attack" happens from within, it's a trojan horse situation except you're the one that puts the soldiers into the horse. on its own, it's just a horse.

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Prospero @qephatziel

2 weeks ago

taking a hundred-millisecond meditation break per second

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Jérémy Perret @gyrodiot

2 weeks ago

@TutorVals @manic_pixie_agi Long ago, a word has been loaned. The debt will never be repaid. We get interest through recognition and familiarity. - "Oh, that one is for magic!" - "How do you even know this obscure word?" - "Words are plants. Same root, but our language gave it more light."

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alice @ casa tilo 🔜 porto & the garden & treeweek @aliceisplaying

2 weeks ago

i've had a very positive experience asking vals for tips on better communication with people in jesscamp 4, can highly recommend.

tutor vals🔸 @TutorVals

2 months ago

i've had a very positive experience asking vals for tips on better communication with people in jesscamp 4, can highly recommend.

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Jamie @jdublikesnacks

2 weeks ago

I was twisted up and cold dm’ed @TutorVals about it. He asked questions, reflected, and offered frames in a way that helped me find cruxes and untangle knots pretty much immediately. ☺️ My favorite shift is I feel more relaxed about my wants and not minding if they show.