I DO NOT miss my narcissist, not a bit!
Today, I was able to visit with my daughter, take a FaceTime call with my son, enjoy a spur of the moment art exhibit. Drove to visit friends with disco music blaring!
My narcissist restricted my movements, controlled my time & attention.
"For the women, this style of abuser can be a nightmare. He wants sex when he wants it, the way he likes it, with little attention to the way to how she may feel or what her needs might be. Sexual episodes to him may feel like assaults to her."
Lundy Bancroft knows abusive men!
"For the women, this style of abuser can be a nightmare. He wants sex when he wants it, the way he likes it, with little attention to the way to how she may feel or what her needs might be. Sexual episodes to him may feel like assaults to her."
Lundy Bancroft knows abusive men!
My covert narcissist acted as if he was a gift to me.
The reality: he had terrible breath (hadn't seen a dentist in a decade), dangling nose hairs & long ridged toenails (I'd ask him to trim, he never did on his own), big belly, ED (a blessing) and didn't bathe thoroughly. Ugh!
I think this was how I ended up with husband #2, a Covert Narcissist.
He saw opportunity as I wrapped up 5 years of legal maneuvering by #1 to reverse a sensible divorce judgement.
#2 could not have been more different from husband #1, a Psychopath "with a touch of narcissism."
I could infuriate my narcissist by deflecting questions he'd ask me with malintent.
Instead of playing into his hand, I'd ask a question in return. Or make a benign observation.
This worked for a while, but then he got wise to the deflections. Then I'd just laugh.
I could infuriate my narcissist by deflecting questions he'd ask me with malintent.
Instead of playing into his hand, I'd ask a question in return. Or make a benign observation.
This worked for a while, but then he got wise to the deflections. Then I'd just laugh.
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