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Want to fear less, learn more. LOVE more! Need help to make these central: compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience Joined March 2020-
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Right. I think this describes seminary training for many. People are concerned about chatbots acting like humans, but look at what we’ve done to the church! Human chatbots! chatbot.com/blog/personali….
Right. I think this describes seminary training for many. People are concerned about chatbots acting like humans, but look at what we’ve done to the church! Human chatbots! chatbot.com/blog/personali….
Our immune system also tries to protect us against toxic people and situations. Our cortisol spikes. Our body gets inflamed because it's fighting an emotional infection. Many symptoms disappear as we get into healthier environments.
I’m curious! @KaitlynSchiess @SkyeJethani
Trying to make sense out what will never .., The loss of the person you thought you knew. Survivors (most) experience this while the abuse is happening. Untangling is a process. And the abuser doesn’t want to let you go!!
Trying to make sense out what will never .., The loss of the person you thought you knew. Survivors (most) experience this while the abuse is happening. Untangling is a process. And the abuser doesn’t want to let you go!!
All of this… What is the mission anyway? Really?
All of this… What is the mission anyway? Really?
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It is significant that when Scene 5 opens, it is Faustus himself who tells himself that he is damned and can’t be saved—a lie later repeated by the Evil Angel and Lucifer, who says (in Scene 6), “Christ cannot save thy soul, for he is just.” Isn’t this the lie that Satan uses…
Too many male pastors and teachers generalize all men as victims to their sex drive. This is why women are shamed for their bodies and taught to cover up. But what if we saw this for what it was? Unsafe men who are telling on themselves: baremarriage.com/2024/04/fred-s…
This week's episode with @bethfelkerjones tackles a common question for kids and grown-ups: if God is everywhere, why can't we see him? Plus: a new segment, "Greatest Moments in Sunday School History" :) holypost.com/post/how-is-go…
If you lean left and have right-wing examples in mind, I assure you I have a famous left-wing person (specifically a Christian) in mind. If you lean right and have left-wing examples in mind, I assure you I have a famous right-wing person (specifically a Christian) in mind.
All lasting conflicts are sustained by double victim narratives. Both sides marshal compelling evidence that they are the threatened minority. There is nothing more irresponsible than to be someone in public life who consistently fuels one side of a double victim narrative.
This is so good, and actually applies to many, many other situations besides questions about church teaching. Leah Libresco Sargeant at firstthings.com/web-exclusives…
Our immune system also tries to protect us against toxic people and situations. Our cortisol spikes. Our body gets inflamed because it's fighting an emotional infection. Many symptoms disappear as we get into healthier environments.
We left because there was no place for us. We have found a new church. We are healing.
@TerryLaudett @MaryDeMuth It’s her story to tell or not. She doesn’t owe it to anyone. Your tweet reads more like you’re more concerned with whether she’s still in church than you are that a sister has been wounded & we should care about her.
@Wicomaq Tammy has filed a police report and is working with attorneys. This is not a conference circuit and there is no defamation here. Everything stated is provable.
@Whistlepigstew Tammy is not pretending to be an "expert" on abuse. She is simply sharing her story, what she fell for, why she believed it, in hopes that it will save others from falling for the same lies and that it will give those being abused the courage to speak up.
@THESTABLEMEN This cannot be shared publicly. Yes, she filed a police report. That is all the information I can tell you.
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I’m at the point in my healing where when someone shows genuine concern for me it catches me by surprise. I’ve been rejected and unwanted since my pastor SA’d me over 3 years ago. Having authentic care now seems foreign and I don’t know how to handle it emotionally. #SBCtoo
@dtripp4801 Absolutely. He was my pastor, my boss, and my counseling I trusted him fully before he assaulted me.
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4. Own the positive: in the moments when you don't go into autopilot impulsive behavior, honor yourself. We tend to notice the negative, but to change this pattern we have to cheer ourselves on. Every conscious choice you make is a major win.
3. Pattern break: once you notice what's behind the behavior (feeling afraid, not good enough, lonely etc) create a pattern break when notice this coming up. A pattern break can be: putting down your phone, going for a walk, calling a close friend, etc.
2. What's behind it: let's use the example of impulsive spending. Ex: you start to feel really lonely and even though you told yourself you want to budget, you online shop then shame yourself. Behind the impulsive behavior is feeling lonely.