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Do I have any journalists following me that would be interested right now in a kind of more upbeat sex work story / interview / feature? timely hook on an event at the end of August lemme know your email or DM me, I can forward you some info
regular reminder - things emotional labor is NOT: raising a child! being someone’s friend! having a conversation! emotional labor IS: having to maintain a certain emotional presentation as you perform wage labor as part of the requirements of the job
a debutante ball but for reintroducing ourselves to society after an extended period of depression and isolation
Yo LA, Strippers United members at the Star Garden strip club in North Hollywood have been on strike since Saturday! @instagram recently removed their account without warning, so follow @stripperstrikenoho on IG for updates & donate to the strike fund here donorbox.org/stripper-actio…
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It’s so funny to me how every anti sex work op-ed is always written by like, some lady
TW Spanking, child abuse People get incredibly defensive when you say you oppose hitting children. I imagine so much of that is about the inability to make sense of one’s own childhood. It’s too difficult to believe you also deserved gentleness & patience instead of violence.
@AshleyLatke Can we as a society stop funding "anti-porn activists" on a self-discovery journey that sex workers are people too? Can we maybe, I don't know, FUND ACTUAL SEX WORKERS WHO KNOW HOW TO MAKE MOVIES to tell their stories?
Are you a sworker who wants to be part of the steering committee to Decrim Oregon? *You do NOT need to go public to get involved* **Do not need to be from Oregon or currently here** ***All genders, types of work welcome, we want diversity in our members*** (continued)
having internet access and the “luxury” of working from home is seen to be low risk and more elite. I want to problematize these simplistic safe/unsafe and privileged/oppressed dichotomies when it comes to internet access and working from home.peepshowmagazine.com/2021/05/06/fac… @PeepshowMag
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Does anyone know a tax preparer who is sex work friendly (or a sex worker themselves?) Not for a story! I just need help 🙃
the proliferation of sex work should be alarming, but not because it's sex work. sex workers are part of a growing trend of poor people engaging in gigs and side hustles, which have little to no labor protections, in order to make ends meet. it's indicative of economic decline.
One of most poorly shot, tonally catastrophic, badly directed films I’ve ever had the misfortune of experiencing in my entire life, was nominated for ‘best director’.
Should sex work be fully decriminalized in 2021? Yes Yes Yes 👇 👇 👇
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Sex workers have been talking about the rise in “sex negativity” and it’s direct link to fascism in this “moment” which actually has been more like a decade. We’re seeing the broad impact of this now. Facebook going global banning nudity / rise of “left” SWERFs, all related
I can't say exactly how widespread it is, but there is absolutely a strong cultural backlash right now against any and all romantic storylines in film or TV from viewers younger than me.
“my chest hurts” “i’m genuinely afraid” “i fell to my knees” “i’m crumbling” “how could you” just a handful of my groupchat’s reactions to finding out i watch ted lasso. i’m so sorry to everyone i’ve hurt 💔
Every single retail job I’ve ever had explicitly told us to not go after shoplifters so when you hear stories of someone harming a shoplifter where they work they’re not doing that “to protect the company” they’re doing that bc they want to harm someone
There's something that I have been struggling to articulate, both to myself and to other people, but I think I have a handle on it so I'm going to try because it feels important to say, esp in an era where it is de rigeur to act blasé about OF and SW.
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due to my twitter chaos mode poll receiving a “yes” vote: we fell in love over the phone on accident (like love is blind w/o an agenda) and now we are in love
I “quit” sex work in 2020 because of the pandemic, but, make no mistake, I will never stop aligning myself with the needs of sex workers, especially FSSWs. And I’m not ashamed of how I spent most of my adult life nor will I ever hide it, downplay it, or stop talking about it.
pole dancers who shame strippers are like if open mic’ers shamed comedians who actually get paid
I’m going back to school with my titty money 💪😤
converting to catholicism is universally recognized as sicko behavior bc catholicism is understood by everybody of sound mind to be a childhood illness, like polio or croup
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Do I have any journalists following me that would be interested right now in a kind of more upbeat sex work story / interview / feature? timely hook on an event at the end of August lemme know your email or DM me, I can forward you some info
There is no shame in sexual availability. Getting paid to do things we otherwise wouldn’t is pretty much the definition of having a job. Not much shame in that. #noshameinsexwork #itsokaytopay #sexworkiswork
regular reminder - things emotional labor is NOT: raising a child! being someone’s friend! having a conversation! emotional labor IS: having to maintain a certain emotional presentation as you perform wage labor as part of the requirements of the job
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