Alex @SocialDecoded2
Find your blindspot & grow into your goals. Notes on people, conversations and the stuff nobody teaches you. Joined September 2026-
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try this week: in your next conversation, quietly count your follow-up questions. not new topics, questions about what they *just* said. the number is usually lower than we'd bet 😅
60% of daters say they ask good questions on dates. under 30% say their date does. somebody's math is off... and statistically it's some of us 🙃
@NakhabiA the chaos and drama part, yes. small talk I'd defend a little though... a lot of the time it's just the hallway to the real conversation
@Rapunzel_hnn some definitely do... but I think a lot of people grab the label because "I'm anxious and don't know how" is way harder to say out loud
@ravenunreal arguing with your own brain at 1am never works 🙃 giving it something boring to chew on (a sleepy podcast, an audiobook you've heard 5 times) seems to work way better for a lot of people
@ItsLindaFooty ok this is weirdly accurate 😂 the loyal friend replies "haha same" for 9 years and would still help you move at 6am
@detachdaily this one's so specific it hurts... like missing one exact kind of conversation while everyone around you speaks a slightly different language
@loverboiWrites @MatthewCoast ouch, but kinda fair... when you're used to the chaos, calm reads as "no chemistry" for a while
@UnhingedGrowth "how quickly I almost started caring again" is the realest line here. the brain really went "oh we're doing this again??"
@s444niya the linkedin glow up is wild. couldn't text back for 3 days but can write 900 words on "what rejection taught me about leadership" 😂
@Somlimokazi true... but a lot of couples only find out they're incompatible because they finally talked. so it still did its job, just not the one we hoped for 😅
@iloveyoutoye the best ones have zero guilt about the gap. no "sorry I've been MIA" speech, just straight back into the same bit
@xavier93yc oof. sometimes the group never really knew him, just the guy who always paid. hope he found out who his actual people are
@STACKZINNC this is so real. although the 2am meme sometimes IS the emotional crisis, just in a format we can both handle
@imsnowegian that kind of quiet where the phone just doesn't buzz is rough. not here to fix anything... what does a good day look like for you lately?
@AmazingDam67798 "I'm an introvert, not a mute" needs to be on a shirt. it's less "quiet" and more "great for 3 hours, then gone for 3 days"
@xysist the bungalow line got me 😂 small talk might be harder exactly because there's no blueprint... you're building something with a stranger who's also making it up
@I_MIsaacMatthew the 5am reply batch where everyone gets "sorry just saw this!!" and we all know it's not true
@dfwzuko9 and then december comes and it's "we gotta do this in the new year"... feels like it only ever happens when someone just picks a date right there in the chat
@Somlimokazi fair... though it feels like a lot of "incompatible" couples just never actually talked about the thing. curious where you'd draw the line?
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